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What is the Learning Space?

September 9, 2026 Leave a Comment

What is the Learning Space?

What are its Neurological Benefits?

The Learning Space is the space between what you know and what you will master. It is the emotional and mental transition of moving from “not knowing” to “knowing.” 

The Learning Space is hard & challenging. What emerges in that space is feelings of frustration, discomfort, uncertainty, fear of incompetence  and embarrassment.

It was popularized by clinical psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy. It’s an “in-between” phase learners experience when faced with a challenge.

Rather than rushing to fix the frustration or giving up, staying in this space helps build a growth mindset and resilience. 

We all experience this transition when learning something new.

Take speaking a new language, learning how to play an instrument, adapting to a new routine, etc. Our brains tend to stick to the old and resist the new which requires effort, but the neurological benefits of developing this skill are multiple:

Neurological benefits to tolerate the Learning Space
 
Developing the ability to tolerate the discomfort of the “learning space” triggers significant, positive structural changes in the brain. Rather than viewing frustration as a sign of failure, sitting with that discomfort acts as a literal workout for your nervous system.

The primary neurological benefits of developing this skill include:

1. Accelerates Neuroplasticity and Myelination
When you push through the frustration of “not knowing,” your brain initiates experience-dependent neuroplasticity.
  • Strengthening Synapses: Cells that fire together wire together. Confronting a challenge forces neurons to send electrical and chemical signals across new pathways.
  • Thicker Myelin Insulation: As you repeatedly struggle and try again, the brain wraps these new pathways in a fatty sheath called myelin. Myelin acts like insulation on an electrical wire, allowing thoughts and skills to travel up to 100 times faster, making the once-difficult task feel automatic over time.

2. Emotional Regulation 

The feeling of frustration originates in the brain’s emotional center, the limbic system (specifically the amygdala). By choosing to stay in the learning space rather than giving up, you engage the prefrontal cortex, which manages emotional regulation, problem-solving, and planning.
Over time, this builds stronger communication pathways between the emotional brain and the thinking brain, leading to permanent improvements in impulse control and distress tolerance.

3. Enhances The Growth Mindset Circuit

  • When you reframe mistakes as part of the process, your brain activates the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex and the hippocampus.
  • Instead of registering a mistake as a threat, your brain treats it as valuable feedback, sparking a healthy release of dopamine when you finally make progress.
  • Deepens connectivity between memory, reward, and executive control centers

It is important to remember that when you are in that space you are evolving, what you really need is to PAUSE and become aware of the fact that that discomfort is a natural part of the growing process.

When you are in that space what you need is patience, self compassion, and the motivation to cross that space to achieve the confidence that you will manage what you see as hard and difficult right now.  

You are in a transition space which is temporary until you shape your brain to accommodate the new skills.

Like David Ghiyam, the famous spiritual teacher explains, “Divine discomfort is the birthplace of your greatest expansion.”

Most of us have been conditioned to avoid discomfort at all costs. We seek ease, convenience, and paths of least resistance, never realizing that this avoidance blocks our spiritual evolution.

However, discomfort is not punishment, it’s preparation. Just as a muscle must be stressed to grow stronger, your soul requires challenges to expand its capacity.

What feels like a painful restriction is actually the Creator crafting your capacity for greater receiving. The areas where you feel most uncomfortable are precisely where your most profound transformations await.

Here ia a change of perspective for you:  “I welcome divine discomfort as my path to growth. Every challenge is preparing me for my next level of manifestation.”

Filed Under: Mindfulness, Miscellaneous, Personal Transformation, Resistance, Self-Compassion

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